“Heroin use a growing problem for suburban teens”

Heroin use a growing problem for suburban teens

Posted: 18 Sep 2010 11:49 PM PDT

Paul knew his son was doing something he shouldn't — drinking, smoking weed, maybe popping pills.

So when the West Milford father saw the odometer on James' new 2009 Toyota racking up almost 100 miles a day, he had to say something: "You better quit going to Paterson every day to buy drugs," he quipped, trying to keep it light.

James, then 17, laughed, but he recalls thinking, "'He can't know, can he?' All I kept thinking was, 'I hope I don't get caught today because I really want to get high.' "

It was late spring 2009, and James was already weeks into heroin addiction. Yet it would be months before he would admit that fact to himself and his family.

A junior in a North Jersey private school, James continued to blend in: He still wore his favorite Ed Hardy shirts and kept his hair trimmed and earring in place. He remained solid in class, pulling B's without much effort.

But that, say experts, is typical today: Many heroin users are suburban kids who have enough disposable income and support to avoid detection — in some cases, even for months.

"It's not in dark alleys anymore," said Douglas S. Collier, special agent in charge of the U.S. Drug Enforcement Administration's state office. "Heroin crosses all socioeconomic and demographic lines."

Hidden heroin use among young residents has been especially vexing in West Milford, a community of 28,000 in the extreme northwest corner of Passaic County. There have been a handful of fatal overdoses, and officials say heroin use is on the rise among high school kids.

It's a town somewhat unusual in its geography — vast acres of woodlands threaded among dozens of small neighborhoods. But most of its residents live the same comfortable, suburban lifestyle as do their neighbors in towns across North Jersey.

And they share a less desirable fact of life with parents throughout the region: easy access to a soul-shattering drug.

"No area is the center of the universe for drugs," said Lt. Tom Dombroski of the Bergen County Prosecutor's Office, who is in charge of the narcotics unit. "Heroin use is happening in all areas of the county."

James, who like the other users in this story asked that his real name not be used, could get heroin in his community, but instead became his own dealer to feed a 10-bag-a-day habit. He was driving down Route 23 to Paterson — "Heroin Highway" to local junkies — twice or three times a day to score, for both himself and his friends.

At the beginning, a bag, typically containing one-tenth of a gram, would keep James high three to four hours. But after he became physically addicted, he needed one bag just so he wouldn't feel sick and two or three more to get high.

"My whole life was about when was the next time I could use," he said. "I didn't care about anyone or anything. I didn't eat much; didn't want a girlfriend because I knew she would give me a hard time about going to Paterson and getting high — I didn't need that."

Yet even his parents, who knew something was up, never guessed it was heroin that had hold of him.

They aren't alone: a special dormitory at Rutgers University is set up for students in recovery from drugs and alcohol. It's filled with kids just like James.

"Most of the kids we see in this dorm are suburban kids from high-functioning families," said Lisa Laitman, director of Alcohol and Other Drugs Assistance Program. "The parents say these kids were in Cub Scouts, soccer — your typical suburban kids."

A simmering problem

West Milford police view heroin as a simmering problem. It isn't epidemic yet, or being sold in school hallways. But it's already lethal: There have been three drug-related deaths in town so far this year — two from heroin — compared to one in 2009 and one in 2008.

"I can't say the problem is worse in West Milford than other towns because I don't know what other towns have, but there are a lot of kids using heroin here," said Detective Michael Malfetti, the township Police Department's narcotics officer. "Maybe we're just catching more. But the problem is [that] heroin is too easy and cheap to get."

Police went to West Milford High five times in the past year on substance-abuse calls, with at least one about heroin; that happened just once in the past two years, and neither call involved heroin.

Additionally, drug counselors and police in neighboring towns say users there report getting heroin from West Milford. But they're at a loss to explain why.

Ringwood Police Chief Bernard Lombardo viewed it as just a matter of "luck" that one town has a larger problem than another. "We've had some arrests for possession — no dealers, but everyone we've arrested said they're getting it from people in West Milford," he said.

Smack, Black Tar, Big H — whatever the name — is harrowing stuff. The odds are stacked against recovery for those who fall into its grasp, said Eugene "Skip" McLaughlin, director of New Life Recovery Center in West Milford.

Also alarming is the path abusers often take to heroin use: Kids stealing parents' painkillers and other prescription drugs — and taking them to "pharming parties."

"Stuff from grandma's cancer treatment, mom's bad back, dad's arthritis, whatever was prescribed for a family member, the kids are taking them to parties, throwing them in a bowl and then pulling out whatever they want to take," said West Milford Detective Frank Elia. "They have no idea what they're taking or how the stuff will interact with each other. It's bad."

"Then," Malfetti added, "they get hooked on these pills and when they can't afford $60 to $80 a pill anymore, they go to heroin."

John, 22, a local man clean for the third time amid a three-year addiction, started by snorting. That "didn't seem so bad," he recalled. "It's not like you're putting needles in your arm. It wasn't any different than snorting coke."

But he was soon shooting it into his veins for a greater effect.

"You're always chasing that first high — 'chasing the dragon' it's called — and it's never the same," John said, shaking his head. "The very first time I did it, I felt like 'This is what I was put on this earth to do.' Heroin was what I was looking for my whole life."

This time, he's been clean since the end of April. Yet he still smiles in recalling the high: "First you get a head rush, and you feel kind of lightheaded. Then you get this warmth throughout your whole body, even your stomach. You're completely relaxed. Nothing bothers you. It's the best feeling in the world."

It's not all warm and fuzzy, of course: After first effects, users get drowsy and "nod out." Vomiting, itching and sometimes fatal slowing of the heart and breathing can follow. Throat muscles relax so much a user may choke after vomiting.

John couldn't support his habit on low-wage jobs, so he teamed with other addicts to steal valuables from acquaintances. They sold the items for a fraction of their worth.

Jewelry stores on notice

Former Police Chief Paul Costello said that "more crimes are being committed today because of drugs," but officers don't always learn what drug is spurring a crime.

"We know many people are using out there, stealing jewelry and heirlooms from family members and selling them," he said.

Hoping to curb such thefts, Malfetti and the Township Council crafted a law mandating local jewelry stores to keep records, including photos, of items brought in for sale. Malfetti's stack of such photos is several inches high. There are similar ordinances in towns across the state.

But despite all that effort, police often run up against another symptom of hidden heroin use in the suburbs: Loved ones who refuse to prosecute. "I've gone to family members with jewelry I know they owned, but they would rather lose it than admit that a relative is stealing," Malfetti said.

Most addicts arrested in West Milford have been in their late teens and 20s, but heroin is reaching the high school. Five students tested positive for the drug in 2009-10, compared with one in 2008-09, said William Burks, the public high school's substance abuse counselor. Testing is required only after a student shows telltale symptoms — slurred speech, stumbling or sleeping in class.

"Five years ago, you could count on one hand the number of kids addicted to it," Burks said. "Now because of the availability — there are more. Not necessarily students; sometimes they are siblings or former students."

Ray Danziger, student assistant coordinator at Lakeland Regional High School, serving Ringwood and Wanaque, knew of "two or three students involved with heroin this past year, and those that I've talked to said they're getting it from people in West Milford."

Nearby Mahwah, in Bergen County, has had a slight rise in heroin arrests. But a few fatal overdoses there a couple of years ago seemed to dissuade new users, said Police Chief James Batelli.

"Everyone was talking about it, and maybe people stayed away from it because of that," he said. "But the face of heroin addiction has changed. I know businessmen, high school kids, all using and you would never know. It's a difficult problem, because no one wants to address it and parents don't know what to look for."

'Completely unmanageable'

McLaughlin knows all too well what the drug does to the mind and body. A former heroin addict, he started New Life 19 years ago and still serves as the director and a counselor. He said users feel no pleasure, except from the drug.

"You become so preoccupied with getting high," he said, "you eventually can't keep up with school, a job, relationships, anything."

In a few months, that's what happened to James, who received treatment at New Life.

He regularly used Ecstasy in his junior year, but was in control enough to partake only on Friday nights to avoid detection from his school's random drug-testing.

Not so with heroin. He tried it for the first time late in the school year at a local carnival and by fall his life became "completely unmanageable and out of control."

The drug's pull was so powerful, he would snort between classes "to hold me over until I got out of school," because he didn't want to bring needles into the building.

James doesn't recall much of his five months on heroin except "The only times I spoke to my parents were to scream at them to get out of my way and let me live my life.

James eventually got so out of control, his father wanted to call the police.

"He was never home, and once he was, he wouldn't stay for any length of time," Paul said. "He had a lack of respect for us, slammed a door and broke it, and once he physically attacked me when I tried to stop him from going out."

Besides trying to interpret teenage volatility for what it might mean, parents also face unfamiliarity with the drug itself: Street heroin doesn't look like its pure form — a fine, white crystalline powder. Rather, it's sold as a brown powder or chunk in small glassine packets, labeled with a dealer's stamp. John recalls his mother finding bags in his room and telling her they were salt and pepper packets from a diner. She didn't question him.

James now acknowledges how hard it is to thwart addicted heroin users. As to whether students can be prevented from carrying drugs into schools, he said "There's nothing anyone could do, short of a strip search. They'll always find a place to hide it — in their socks, places you wouldn't think to look."

James met Matthew at New Life — nicknamed "No Life" by the 60 or so outpatients. Sent by the courts, schools, probation programs, and self-referred, about half are teens or young adults; a dozen are heroin addicts. More than half are from West Milford.

Like James, Matthew made frequent trips to Paterson, where he'd buy heroin for $5 a bag and sell some to friends back home for $10 — a surcharge for risking a mugging during a deal or arrest en route. The 18-year-old Bergen County resident related how he took that risk because "I was desperate: If I didn't get a fix, my muscles ached, I was sweating, vomiting. No one wants to go to Paterson, but I just wanted to stop feeling so bad."

James, clean since Oct. 26, is working to stay that way. He graduated from New Life, talks to addicts in rehab, goes to Alcoholics or Narcotics Anonymous almost daily and attends college.

But Matthew has relapsed since being interviewed. James and McLaughlin hope their friend will rally.

"Sometimes it takes three, five, 20 times," McLaughlin said. "You don't know which one works or if it's a combination. But you have to try. Addiction ends in one of three ways: jail, institution, or death. You have to keep trying."

James vaguely remembers the day he himself asked for help. It was the Sunday before Halloween in 2009. He was driving home with a friend "high as a kite" and kept falling asleep at the wheel.

"My friend had to keep waking me up," he recalled. "I got home — and went to my mother and told her I had a problem."

E-mail: williamsb@northjersey.com

Paul knew his son was doing something he shouldn't — drinking, smoking weed, maybe popping pills.

Heroin that was confiscated and taken into evidence by the West Milford Police Department.

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Heroin that was confiscated and taken into evidence by the West Milford Police Department.

James, then 17, laughed, but he recalls thinking, "'He can't know, can he?' All I kept thinking was, 'I hope I don't get caught today because I really want to get high.' "

It was late spring 2009, and James was already weeks into heroin addiction. Yet it would be months before he would admit that fact to himself and his family.

But that, say experts, is typical today: Many heroin users are suburban kids who have enough disposable income and support to avoid detection — in some cases, even for months.

By the numbers

1.8 percent: High school seniors in New Jersey who say they have used heroin at least once in their lives.

Source: 2009 "Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance System" survey of high school students conducted by the federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

28,726: The number of New Jersey residents, mostly young adults, who sought treatment for addiction to heroin and other opiates in New Jersey in 2009.

Source: New Jersey Department of Human Services — Division on Addiction Services.

310: The pounds of heroin seized by federal authorities in New Jersey in 2009. The amount has grown in each of the last three years.

Source: U.S. Drug Enforcement Administration

And they share a less desirable fact of life with parents throughout the region: easy access to a soul-shattering drug.

Yet even his parents, who knew something was up, never guessed it was heroin that had hold of him.

They aren't alone: a special dormitory at Rutgers University is set up for students in recovery from drugs and alcohol. It's filled with kids just like James.